What time is it: 345P
Where am I:
on campus waiting for Geo during piano practice
Listening to: Geo play the piano- auto correcting the line he keeps missing in Ode to Joy.
Last ate: Ramen- the dietary staple of my life as I work at New House which does not yet have a refrigerator.
Thoughts:
I was asked point blank yesterday about Santa by my youngest. Strangely we don't talk about Santa around here, or didn't really until Geo came home from first grade educating us all on the wonders that is.
But strangely, I found myself caught. I don't want to tell my child that there is a kind and loving man watching everything that goes on and if we are good this man will reward us... to only later tell him said man isn't really real but oh by the way let me tell you about God...
So I didn't want to say the truth but didn't want to burst his little happy Santa-loving heart.
Instead, I played the "what do you mean by is Santa real" question to see exactly what he was wanting to know. It boiled down to the question of can Santa go back up the chimney, and he seemed satisfied with the idea he came to that Santa must go out the door.
In my defense I never did say he's real- and in fact once said he wasn't- but then the talent of ISH's selective hearing tuned that out (he, of course, gets that talent from his father).
So I'm curious- do you do Santa? Do you tell your kids he's real? Do you go the route of a past friend of mine whose mom put footprints near the fireplace in the name of childhood magic? Do you squelch any Santa talk in the name of full on honesty? Or do you find yourself somewhere in between?
And in my own defense- at least Agatha the Gift Bearing Beagle did actually exist.